Bedtime Habits for a Growing Child
Bedtime habits are very vital for most children in creating good sleeping patterns and in increasing a sense of safety and stability. A good sleeping habit for your baby will benefit him and make him healthier as he grows up. Choose a sleep time for your baby which will be comfortable for him and which you can be consistent with. It is important to get him used to sleeping at a certain time on a regular basis.
Let him get used to a bedtime that will be most comfortable for you and your baby. When he has adapted to his regular sleeping habits, you and your family will have an easier time to likewise become accustomed to them. A good bedtime schedule will help out in teaching a child to wind down and relax as he gets ready to sleep. However, you have to also think that some sleeping patterns might be good for some babies but might not be good for your child.
Different babies adapt to different things, just like normal adult people. Take for example your usual bathing. Your baby may be most comfortable in doing this during the night rather than during the day. It might be a good idea to do this before getting your baby to sleep at night, but if you feel that he is not comfortable with it, then by all means do not force him to do it. It will only result to discomfort on your baby’s part.
Include activities in the routine that will make your baby calm down before making him sleep at night. This will give you an easier time in putting him to sleep and getting that much needed rest yourself. Keep the habit brief and sweet. Ideally, it should only consist of four to six steps that can be finished in a logical time frame; not something that will take you hours to finish during the night.
Read your baby a book, brush his teeth, have a glass of water or say a goodnight prayer every night with your baby. This will not only accustom him to a healthy and orderly habit before going to sleep; you will also have the time to bond with each other everyday, spending quality time as mother and baby. Embracing and kissing family members can also be a great part of a bedtime routine that you will introduce to your child. This will make him feel comfortable on the idea of being with people and getting used to them. This will also introduce to him the love and care of a family even at a young age.

There will be times when circumstances may prevent your child from sleeping at the usual time. Do not force him to sleep when he is not comfortable with it yet. It will only make him upset and will prolong his tantrums. You can go on with your usual bedtime routines and make him calm down. Keep in mind that every step in your routine can be shortened considerably to avoid frustrations at a time when everyone is tired.